Craig Deleenheer:
CLASS OF 1985
Righetti High SchoolClass of 1985
Santa maria, CA
Allan Hancock CollegeClass of 1996
Santa maria, CA
Tulare Western High SchoolClass of 1985
Tulare, CA
Tulare Union High SchoolClass of 1985
Tulare, CA
Visalia Christian AcademyClass of 1980
Visalia, CA
Craig's Story
It was Mother's Day nineteen ninety-one. A typical late spring day in California where the sun was shining and the smells of spring still floated easily in the air. I arrived at mom's house, ready to gorge myself on a home cooked meal. Dinner is not ready yet? If I have an hour or two, there is time for a bike ride. A quick phone call later, "Fish" and I were on the trail. We called the place "torkers". It had numerous paths intertwining through groves of eucalyptus and oak trees. Flying down a trail dodging trees we soon found ourselves at the edge of a deep ravine with a dry creek bed in the bottom. Two fallen logs were perched in such a way that it made a sort of ramp leading to the ravine. At the high end of this log hung a rope. The idea was to run up the log while holding the rope and swing in large, lazy circles out over the creek bed. By running a little further up the log each time you came around you could get some scary height as you passed above the ravine. I had to try it out, but I am going to be safe about it. The first thing I did was to grasp the rope. Jump as high as I could and pull as hard as I could when the slack came out. It held tight so it must be safe. We took turns on that swing for close to an hour, until we decide to move on. I am going to go one last time, but this time I am going to see if I can swing all the way across, Tarzan style. I swung out, in perfect form. Then with a loud crack the rope broke where it was tied to the tree. I the blink of an eye, I was hurled into the sand below. The darkness faded from the hard landing and when I came to I was looking up at giant Eucalyptus branches swaying in the wind. It felt like someone had bashed my head with a sledgehammer. I tried to get up and my body would not move. I reached for my right leg and could not feel my hand touching it! Pain surged through every part of me. With every breath agony pulsed, reducing my lungs to fa...Expand for more
st shallow pants, trying in vain to gasp the air that the pain in my body resisted. My buddy "Fish" was with me and the look in his eye's revealed to me the life changing moment I had encountered. He said something then ran to call for help. Fear swept over me like no other I had ever felt. I am going to die lying here alone in this sandy ravine. I thought of my parents explaining how their son died on Mother's day. What have I done? Then she appeared. She was quiet and calming, with her little dog on a leash. She sat beside me, placing one hand on my forehead and holding my hand with the other. She told me I was not going to die. There was a special purpose for my life. As she spoke images of her words reeled through my head as if she was reading from a picture book in my mind's eye. "It hurts to breathe", I told her. She just smiled a calm and warm expression of love. I asked if she would tell my parents that I love them when I am gone. With peaceful eyes that pierced the overwhelming pain she said, "This is not your time". I closed my eyes and faded for a moment. When I opened my eyes again she was gone and "Fish" was standing over me saying that help was on the way. By now a small group had gathered. Curious on lookers wanting to see the life that was crumpled in an agonizing split second. I wanted to ask where she had gone, but I was overcome and entered a realm where there was nothing except for intense pain. I do remember telling the firemen that scooped me out of my sandy grave to please come back and cut the rope down as soon as they were done with me. I am not sure if they answered me. It was then that I descended into an abyss of pain medications in mega doses. Falling into an alternate state of consciousness where brief moments of color, life and loved ones are scattered among long periods of darkness, confusion and intense pain.
This is the opening to a book I am writing about my experiences.
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